No, you guys aren't teenagers. this shit works a little differently as adults with an unbelievable amount of emotional baggage and a fear of both intimacy and vulnerability. But seeing as I am now a relationship expert having been in One ever that has apparently died not with a bang but a whimper I think my assessment is pretty much unquestionable.
That one was a joke.
He cares about you, he's into you, he would never call it dating you but I think if you wanted it he'd stick around and have sex and love you and generally do all of the things a very invested person would.
And if you don't want that, I think he's pretty content just hanging back being really into you from a distance, being your friend, and pretending to just hit on you because that part is safe & light.
& I'm super curious what it is you're feeling about him.
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No, you guys aren't teenagers. this shit works a little differently as adults with an unbelievable amount of emotional baggage and a fear of both intimacy and vulnerability. But seeing as I am now a relationship expert having been in One ever that has apparently died not with a bang but a whimper I think my assessment is pretty much unquestionable.
That one was a joke.
He cares about you, he's into you, he would never call it dating you but I think if you wanted it he'd stick around and have sex and love you and generally do all of the things a very invested person would.
And if you don't want that, I think he's pretty content just hanging back being really into you from a distance, being your friend, and pretending to just hit on you because that part is safe & light.
& I'm super curious what it is you're feeling about him.