'Getting through it' is a little more simplistic than what I should say, but it's the basic version. More in depth, you can't always change or control what happens--things like what the gods did, or the earthquake--and so what you can do is figure out how to move forward from it. Normally, I'd suggest doing that by confronting and working through the traumatic events, but that wasn't always possible in Hadriel.
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[But okay, more seriously--]
'Getting through it' is a little more simplistic than what I should say, but it's the basic version. More in depth, you can't always change or control what happens--things like what the gods did, or the earthquake--and so what you can do is figure out how to move forward from it. Normally, I'd suggest doing that by confronting and working through the traumatic events, but that wasn't always possible in Hadriel.