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kyna ([personal profile] evocation) wrote2019-12-07 10:40 pm

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[personal profile] lifetothefullest 2020-07-17 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
What was the situation? Were you trying to talk to him about something and it upset him?
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[personal profile] lifetothefullest 2020-07-17 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
[He'll just... File that information away for now, and put it in the list of other horrible things he's heard and that he needs to worry about his friends over. But focusing on the conversation--]

In what way? What did he say?
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[personal profile] lifetothefullest 2020-07-17 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
[Ah, one of these situations. Okay, well, at least he can try to give some advice.]

You're probably right that it was bothering him, and that it would help him to talk to someone. But if someone isn't ready to talk, trying to make them will only make things worse.

It sucks when you want to help your friend and they won't accept it, but all you can really do is be there for them for when they do choose to ask for help.
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[personal profile] lifetothefullest 2020-07-18 07:45 pm (UTC)(link)
That may be the case, but if it is then you have to accept that.
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[personal profile] lifetothefullest 2020-07-18 08:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Lots of practice.

[It's half a joke and half true.]